“Suffering is God’s megaphone to arose sleeping generation.” – Charles Spurgeon
First let me discuss what burden is, burden means carrying difficult situation and experiencing things that are really difficult to grip! No one can escape from such. Everyone including me can experience intricate times. The good news is God can’t tolerate in giving you a burden that you can’t handle! He will always provide way out in every after pain. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you can endure (1 Corinthians 10:13). Indeed, you will also learn lessons from it. My suffering was good for me, for it taught me to pay attention to your decrees (Psalm 119:71).
I don’t know you personally, but God has a wonderful plan for your life. When you know how to handle the burden He gives you, He will do miracles in your life. Indeed I can testify you, last September 2010; I was diagnosed with Dequerdin’s Disease (I am not that sure if this is how it was spelled) in layman’s term I got cyst on my tendon. I can barely move my left hand that time, so the doctor told me you can have surgery if you want. Of course, I was fully assured with my faith. I prayed to God “Lord, I am carrying a huge trouble that I can’t handle, but I know you are bigger than this. I am letting you to handle this” and I believed He is faithful. Few weeks after, God performed a great miracle in my life. My cyst disappeared without going to any surgery! It was faith.
You can’t understand why God is giving you this, if you can’t trust Him. Learn to trust God first and then you would understand. Seek not to understand your pain, seek God through your pain. There is a virtue in suffering as long as you suffer for right purpose. The burden becomes light when you follow the right way! Jesus said in Matthew “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Sometimes you need to admit and tell God that you are weary before He can give you rest. When a child is on pain he will surely tell his parents about it. Same is true with us; we should tell our Heavenly Father whatever bad things happened to us because He will surely help us!
A bit of encouragement, if you are parents right now teach your children on how to fix things out for them to grow mature. However, if you are still in a youth age train yourself – learn how to resolve everything with the help of God. Painful experience is the best teacher! It focuses us in what matters in life. It is good for a man to bear the yoke while he is young (Lamentations 3:27)
“Cherish your pain, for it is your friend; appreciate your hurt, for it is good to your heart.”
In every scars of your heart it represents a lesson that you’ve learned from your sufferings. Be proud of it! That is how God molds you to be a better and wonderful person that you can be. Also, through this, at least next time that you would encounter same situation, God has already prepared you and you are equipped enough!
We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance (Romans 5:3)